I believe what you experienced was perhaps the crux of every immature relationship that seems to happen on a whim.
These days I have experienced and seen many people who tend to use our need of love against us.
How can someone who promises a life of mutual fulfillment and growth abandon you easily?
I thought about this question for a long time. And after several experiences, I came to the conclusion that the only thing they ever wanted was their need being fulfilled.
When that happened, they grew tired of those that they promised love. This is hard for those who believe such people because they were hoping to plan a journey with them.
As love is a journey of a lifetime. And people who break that promise, will soon someday realize their vices.
Let's just hope that when that happens they have the courage to face the music.
I believe your journey has made you strong through the process, and clearly wise. I also feel you can catch a cheater just by spotting their lucrative behaviors.
Especially when they are trying to pull the same trick on you. These experiences allow people to become wiser through them.
And this is something all of us have a responsibility to share with one another, so that no one ever gets abandoned especially from those they thought were their lovers.
Thank you so much for being you. You're an awesome human being. Thank you so much for your insightful remarks, and your beautiful story!
I believe there is a lot of lessons of courage, and perseverance in your experience for all of us to learn from.
Stay Blessed and Stay Safe!
And I hope you have an awesome weekend ahead of you.
Peace and Love unto you!