At times, we can even change them it takes a lot of patience and hard work but at least we can change their perspective of how they view us, instead of changing their nature. When we can make them realize, they will inevitably ponder upon what they did, and what they could have instead, what they should do now.
Alas, at this age of maturity i believe most of the times it is just a bit too late for that affection, because we have already detached from that notion of connection, even then i believe we can still strive to forgive ourselves and others, but we should move away from such and such who can’t understand the value we put through. Sometimes, the best way to make someone realize something is when that aspect isn’t present in their lives anymore. Time and fate are so weird in that regards, one instance where it might make us suffer can become ruin for the one who stood by and watched us suffer.
Overall, one thing i’d say is that perseverance is still necessary. Some prayers get heard, bit late but still maybe our hearts weren’t in it striving for change. Maybe we pray but don’t act enough. If we let other people’s actions determine our fate, we will never be able to truly live our lives. At the end of the day, we need to try to look at the bigger picture, perhaps all the colors of the big picture, as there is value in even the gaps the artist left for us to contemplate and find out for ourselves!
I hope you’re well ❤ 😄
I missed your presence, hehe 😁